Is it because you have your own axis that you can clearly express your opinions?

Do you ever find that while you clearly state your opinion, in the other hand, you lose confidence when the other person clearly states theirs?

This tends to happen when one’s opinion is not really one’s own opinion.

It means concerned about how they appear to others. 

Or when you don’t know yourself clearly or when you don’t feel confident.

In any case, the essence is not knowing yourself.

When both sides disagree, what you are comfortable with is the truth.

There is no need to win or settle.
There is no need to accept the other side.
You can be self-contained.

I was defending myself by expressing my opinion.

It is said that attack is the best defense.

My thoughts were “win or lose”.

I was a victim and a perpetrator.
To get out of this is to become an experiencer.

It’s OK if you don’t accept the other person, respect yourself and the other person 🌈